Impacts Of Socialization on Engagement

Transgender individuals of all genders have unique experiences of socialization based on their precieved gender identity, the societal expectations and norms, and assumptions associated with their gender, . However, there may be some differences in socialization experiences between trans women and trans men based on societal gender roles and expectations that guide engagment.

Socialization can have an impact on how trans women treat trans men, just as it can impact any other aspect of a person’s beliefs and behaviors. However, it is important to note that there is a wide range of experiences and perspectives within the trans community, and not all trans women and trans fem folks will necessarily share the same attitudes or behaviors toward transmasculine folks.

Trans women may have grown up socialized as boys or men, experiencing the expectations and pressures placed on males to conform to traditional gender roles and behaviors. They may have learned to suppress or hide aspects of their femininity or gender identity in order to fit in and avoid discrimination, violence or harassment. As they transition, they may feel the need to learn or re-learn social skills and behaviors that are more associated with femininity, and may experience challenges in navigating societal expectations of women and femininity.

Some trans women may experience pressure to perform thier womanhood, such as wearing makeup or dressing in a certain way, which can lead to feelings of dysphoria or discomfort. They are often also be subjected to objectification and sexualization, as well as discrimination, marginalization and violence based on their gender identity.

On the other hand, trans men may have grown up socialized as girls or women, experiencing the societal expectations and pressures placed on female identfied folks to conform to traditional gender roles and behaviors. They may have been expected to be nurturing, emotional, and submissive, and may have faced discrimination or harassment for exhibiting behaviors or traits that were seen as too masculine. As they transition, they may feel the need to unlearn certain social skills or behaviors associated with femininity, and may feel they need to assert themselves more in order to be taken seriously or to be treated as men or masculine identified folks. The life experience of transmasculine individuals is complex and multifaceted, involving both challenges and triumphs.

It is important to note that these are generalizations, and individual experiences of socialization can vary greatly depending on a variety of factors such as cultural background, familial and peer influences, and personal experiences. It is also important to recognize that the experiences of trans people of all genders are shaped by systemic oppression, exclusion and discrimination, harm & violence and that efforts to address and dismantle these systems of oppression and protect our community can benefit all trans individuals and communities.

In terms of socialization, trans women may have internalized societal expectations and stereotypes about how masculinity and femininity should look. As a result, some trans women view trans men as “not masculine enough” or may hold negative stereotypes about masculinity that can be harmful or invalidating to trans men & transmasc folks. This can lead to issues such as exclusion from social spaces, violence & harm or a lack of support from within the trans community. The impact of socialization on how trans women engage trans men and transmasc folks can have a range of effects on transmasc individuals, depending on the attitudes, life experinces, and behaviors of the individuals involved. Some trans women view transgender men as “traitors” to femininity or perceive their gender identity as a rejection of womanhood. This can lead to a sense of competition or hostility towards trans men, particularly those who may present themselves in more traditionally masculine ways.

This can also impact access to resources, funding and support within the trans community, as many social groups or organizations are more geared towards supporting trans women and fem identified folks rather than transmasc folks. By understanding the unique experiences faced by transmasculine individuals, we can work towards creating a more inclusive and affirming society that supports and celebrates gender diversity.

It is important for all individuals, including trans individuals, to recognize and challenge their own biases and prejudices, hold space and compassion, and to work towards creating an inclusive and supportive environment for all members of the trans community. This should involve education and awareness-raising about issues facing different segments of the trans community, as well as actively working to promote respect, understanding, and solidarity between individual community subgroups.

However, it is VERY important to note that NOT ALL trans women hold negative attitudes towards masculinity or towards trans men specifically. Many transgender women are strong advocates for the entire transgender community as whole and and very much recognize the unique challenges and experiences of all individuals within the community. It is crucial for our community to work towards building bridges and fostering solidarity between all members of our transgender community, regardless of gender identity or socialization.

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